Dear Judy O.: Can you take us off your mailing list for new listings? It’s funny, my husband and I both find that our blood pressure rises a bit when we see them. His because he’s so happy in this house and doesn’t want to relive the house hunting experience… and mine because, happy though I am here, I live in fear that something in our former neighborhood is going to come up.
That said, we do absolutely love our new place. And we feel like we got a great deal. The house two doors down that was just ‘flipped’ (smaller and with some rather boring choices) is now in escrow and the seller told us he had two offers that were 50k more than our house!
Answer: Yes, of course I’ll take you off our mailing list. I fully understand. I hope you aren’t harboring regrets about the house you wrote an offer on and didn’t get. In the larger picture, you made the better choice… and in the long run I sense you’ll fully embrace the move to your new neighborhood, because it’s so wonderful there. Additionally, when the home down the street closes escrow you will have increased the ‘equity’ in your own property by $50K – with only a few short months of ownership. Pretty awesome in my book!